S2 Ep 10: Life Path, Purpose, and Side Adventures: What You Need to Know

Candice defines path as your energetic blueprint—laid out before you arrived here. Purpose, on the other hand, is the soul’s true calling—what you’re here to feel, give, and create in this life. They often work hand-in-hand, but they aren’t always the same.

Shelly shares how her view of purpose has shifted over time. Once obsessed with finding her “capital P” Purpose, she now focuses on living more joyfully and intentionally—trusting that purpose often unfolds through healing, play, and curiosity.

Tools to Guide You Home

Shelly and Candice share practical and spiritual tools that can help uncover your soul’s purpose:

• Numerology (Life Path Numbers): A reflection of your soul’s contract

• Astrology: Look at your North Node, Chiron, and Saturn placements

• Human Design: Learn your energetic blueprint and “yes” signals

• Body Cues: Humming, relaxing, peacefulness—what signals alignment for you?

• Joy + Curiosity Lists: Reconnect with what lights you up

You don’t need a dramatic awakening to find your purpose. Sometimes, all it takes is a quiet moment and a deep question: What do I want more of in my life?

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And as Olivia reminds us: “Fresh starts don’t always come wrapped in pretty packages. Sometimes they come in grief, in tears, and in total transformation.”

Candice shares a vulnerable moment of nearly “burning it all down” when running her healing business felt too overwhelming. She reflects on how even knowing your purpose doesn’t guarantee ease. Sometimes the path gets hard. Sometimes rest is required. And sometimes, a meltdown leads to a breakthrough. Support, community, and divine timing brought her back to clarity.

Shelly echoes that some of the hardest moments of her healing journey—including divorce and deprogramming old beliefs—were the catalysts that led her toward authenticity, creativity, and peace. She also reflects on the discomfort of leaning into feminine energy after being rewarded for years of masculine “doing.”

This episode lovingly reminds us that not all growth is linear. Whether it’s a joyful side adventure, a quiet season of rest, or a spontaneous weekend picnic—every detour can be sacred.

Candice shares that her awakening didn’t begin until age 44. Shelly reminds us we can always ask, “Do I want to live the next 20 years the way I’ve lived the last?”

You don’t need to “figure it all out.” You just need to begin again—with intention.

• Make a Joy List: What lights you up, even in small ways?

• Ask Yourself: “Is this how I want to live the next 20 years?”

• Write Your Own Eulogy: What do you want to be remembered for—and are you living that now?

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