S2 Ep 5: Breaking Free and Reclaiming Your Inner Fire with HeatherAsh Amara

When her marriage and teaching partnership ended, HeatherAsh made a brave decision not to abandon herself, even in the middle of heartbreak. That moment, she says, was a turning point: “I committed to my own healing. It was going to be messy. And it was.”

As she shares, so many of us abandon ourselves to keep the peace, meet expectations, or avoid pain. But the most sacred act we can offer is choosing ourselves, again and again.

In a particularly moving story, HeatherAsh recounts the loss of a beloved forest to wildfire. With tears in her eyes and an open heart, she turned to the land, asking, “What do I do?” The answer: “Sing to the trees. Be with us.”

This powerful story reminds us that nature is not separate from our healing, but part of it. Connection to the Earth, the elements, and all of life can anchor us during times of loss and change.

HeatherAsh emphasized the importance of finding community that honors growth, truth, and vulnerability. As she says, “Community is where the real healing begins.”

But community isn’t always perfect. Healing alongside others often brings up old triggers and that’s part of the process. With compassion and conscious support, we rewrite patterns and rewire connection.

A highlight of this episode is HeatherAsh’s insight into the “spiritual judge.” Even on the healing path, we can start comparing ourselves to others in subtle, damaging ways. Her advice: be honest with yourself, feel into your body, and gently redirect without shame.

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Where in your life are you ready to stop abandoning yourself? How do you stay connected to your own fire?

Thank you for walking this path with us. We love hearing your stories and are honored to be part of your journey.